As human beings we believe in LACK. It started a long time ago in a place called “The Garden.”
Lack is the belief that you are never enough. Usually we do not admit to the feelings
caused by lack. As humans we are taught that they are “bad” feelings. So we hide, repress
and deny these feelings deep within our subconscious.

The Truth…you cannot hide.

The world and everyone around you will consistently reflect back your beliefs to
you. That is how the universe teaches us about ourselves. There are THREE ways to
learn…

React Respond

Go Within

When you react to Life you are giving away your
power; giving away your SELF.

Then we react by trying to have “power over” through control. When you respond to
Life you own your power and take responsibility. When you react you blame either
yourself or others. When you respond you are making a choice to become aware.
This is not a simple task. Making discernment between responding, reacting, wants,
needs, beliefs, patterns of behavior, what we learn to be, who we truly are, ego, and
heart’s desire…is a process. A journey to Awakening.
We create our Reality. Life is a mirror. What you give out energetically will boomerang
back. That means: Consciously or Unconsciously. Most of the time…we are unconscious
to intentions, motivations and desires. We are on automatic pilot.
Change, growth, transformation…whatever one wants to call it, is a human experience.
It is a process of cause and effect. I think, I feel, I experience, I am. We live multidimensionally.
We have an emotional body human body, a spiritual energy body, a
thinking mind, and an unconscious mind. We are human beings only as much as we
can be human and needy for Universal Being and love. That is how we learn to love. By
being human.

That is when we become alive.

In doing our deeper soul work, each individual needs to understand their unique
family history and personal psychological dynamics that cause them to develop their
personalities. However, the personality self we have developed can limit our human
potential and squash our spiritual longing if we are wounded in childhood –

We are all wounded in some way.

To choose to become conscious to our unlimited self means our commitment to know
ourselves, intimately, through our mental, emotional, and spiritual selves. In learning
the intimate details of our lives, we can become the masters and creators of our life and
fulfill our purpose and destiny. To walk this path of conscious choice is to go through
the process of living. To live we must discern between our false self and our true self.
This is a quest. It takes wisdom, courage, and tenacity to recover our authentic selves.
And…we must grieve the loss.

This is why we cannot leap over the mountain, we must climb to the top. This is the
human way. The loss of our true self is an experience of great pain…we need to
learn compassion, self-acceptance, and non-judgment in order to heal. This grieving
process is what teaches us unconditional love…and it starts with where you are at…
it starts right now…in present time. We cannot beat ourselves into change. We cannot
“should” ourselves into change. We cannot compare ourselves into change. We cannot
rationalize ourselves into change. We cannot become like others in order to change…
we must go within…and feel, express and receive life. We need to learn to treat
ourselves with loving kindness, nurturing, persistence, patience and have great respect
for the unknown. We don’t get rid of the past through coercion, we accept our past and
let it gently move us toward healing and change.